Attract The Man of Your Dreams by Using a Woman’s Secret Weapon – Confidence


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Women primping for a date focus on fixing their hair, their dress and preen in front of the mirror until their physical appearance is as close to perfect as possible. After all, good looks are the main way to find a boyfriend, right? Well, yes and no. Think of it this way. Looks can hook the guy, but it’s confidence that reels him in. An assertive woman who knows what she wants out of life and deals with people in a friendly and forthright manner can gain a lot of male attention even if she’s not scantily clad. And a girl with a sense of curiosity and fun can  attract practically any guy she fancies.

A confident woman is not a bossy woman. There are men who like a dominant woman who takes charge of business and personal situations in a couple’s life, but that’s not what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about an open-minded woman who’s comfortable in her own skin. The confidence that attracts a man takes many guises. It can be a perky and boisterous confidence or a coy, under the radar-self-assurance. But if a woman has it, men will notice.

When women chase after a guy, desperately wanting him to call or text or tell her she’s pretty/interesting/smart, that’s one of the best ways to drive him off. But if you live your own life and contact him once in awhile in an easy, natural way, he’ll come calling. No, you don’t need to play hard to get. You just need to live your own life and have your own interests. When you treat having a boyfriend as part of your life, not the be-all and end-all of your existence, you’ll attract more guys.

Even if you life isn’t totally in order, you can still exude confident. Have a good attitude. and strive to conquer problems. Don’t wallow in them. Nobody likes a “Debbie Downer”, though the occasional moment of self-doubt is normal l for occurrence for all of us.

An average-looking woman with a confident or even playful attitude will attract more long-term suitors than a good-looking drama queen. While men might be attracted to the stereotypical good-looking “crazy” or troubled woman for a fling, he certainly won’t bring her home to meet Mom. So work on yourself – become involved in work and hobbies that bolster your confidence– it’s the best way to hook the man of your dreams.

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